Reasons for excessive care

Your loved ones rush to surround you with excessive attention, prevent the slightest desire and create comfort in everyday life. That's just the kind of care that pisses you off. You didn't ask me to arrange your affairs. When your mother carefully enrolls you in a beauty salon, and a friend gives you another gift, you feel obligated. And the question immediately arises about where such attention to your person and the desire to be useful to you at all costs.

The fight for the championship.

Someone from the environment is dissatisfied with their position. He would like to look more attractive in your eyes.

That's why he wants to please. It is quite simple to recognize such an urge. If there is an unpleasant residue in your soul, then you are being assisted to improve your status. For example, your mother-in-law paid for a doctor's call from a private clinic for your child. Of course, this is taking care of the grandson. But, on the other hand, she is trying to show you who is the boss in the house and who is the wealthiest.

In this case, ask your benefactors to help as often as possible. Surely very quickly they will begin to be burdened by your requests.

In the name of love.

The person really wants to help you, please, please. Recognizing a lover is also quite simple. If in the first case care causes a feeling of humiliation, then in the second you feel sorry for the person, you feel awkward or sympathetic. For example, awkwardness can cause too expensive a gift, which, from your point of view, you did not deserve.

The benefactor puts you on the pedestal of his dreams, so he strives to get a star from the sky. It is he who meets you from work and accompanies you late in the evening or calls a taxi if you are delayed somewhere. All that an assistant needs is only joy and approval.

It is useless to fight with such an admirer. After all, he so dreams of your gratitude, and he so wants to win your love and affection! It would be nice for you to communicate with this person more often and also give him at least a little attention.

That's the way it is.

It happens that a person cares about you only because it is accepted, and he is used to it. But for you, this is not reasonable care, but overprotection. For example, your parents continue to buy things for you, even though you don't need it for a long time, and your older brother habitually meets you at the bus stop at a very childish time. The benefactor does not benefit from such care, but he is sure that he provides the necessary assistance and does the right thing. Except you feel like a little girl at the same time.

Discuss the situation with the person, tell them about what you feel when he shows excessive care. If he loves you, he will try to correct his behavior.

However, he may not do it right away, but only on the tenth attempt. In fact, there are positive aspects in the overprotection of loved ones. One has only to think that there are people in the world who sincerely care about you and wish you well. You're not alone, and that's the main thing! Amateur Porn www.amateurest.com UK.